The counseling ministry provides the opportunity to personally attend to the needs of the individuals, the marriages and the families at Cornerstone Chapel. Personal loss, emotional pain, sin issues, spiritual growth and discipleship are all areas in which our Christian counseling ministry could be helpful. Secular counseling attempts to make life more manageable by creating personal wholeness apart from God. In contrast, the Christian counseling at Cornerstone Chapel encourages reliance on the resources that God has provided, including His love, grace, mercy and truth of His Word to glorify Him in the midst of our circumstances.
Our church’s approach to counseling is predominantly determined by an understanding of Scripture, which shapes our view of man, pain and hope in relation to God. It is the church’s desire that the counseling ministry would play a vital role in the development of the spiritual community of believers that exists at Cornerstone Chapel.
Making an Appointment
Anyone wanting an appointment is encouraged to send an email to firstname.lastname@example.org. There are no fees for the counseling received at Cornerstone Chapel, however, a donation is suggested from individuals who do not regularly attend our church. If you need immediate assistance or prayer, please call the church office at (703) 771-1500.Email Counseling
Weddings and Pre-Marital Counseling
We offer pre-marital counseling and officiate weddings for brides and grooms who:
– Know Jesus as their personal Savior.
– Attend Cornerstone Chapel regularly or have family members who attend
Cornerstone Chapel regularly.
– Agree with Cornerstone Chapel’s Articles of Faith.
– Are living in separate residence.
– Are committed to God to sexual abstinence.
Pre-marital Counseling Requirements:
– 1 initial appointment with Pastor Kelley
– 4 sessions with Pastor Kelley or Pastor Andy
– 8 sessions with Pastor Kelley if Step-Parenting is involved
For more information or to set up an initial appointment, please send an email.Email Pre-Marital Counseling
Part-time Counseling Staff
Chris Cole, MA, LPC is a Counselor on Staff at Cornerstone Chapel. He also is the founder of Emmaus Family Counseling Center in Sterling, Virginia, and serves as a network counselor with New Life Ministries. Mr. Cole served for 14 years as the Director of Counseling and the Director of Congregational Care for a year and a half at Christian Fellowship Church in Ashburn, Virginia. He also worked as an Elementary School Guidance Counselor in the Fairfax County School system for four years. Mr. Cole utilizes a Biblical framework to think through the issues that people seek help with. He brings many years of pastoral experience and counseling together to effectively bring healing and restoration to people in relationships. Areas of experience include working with men in recovery from sexual addiction, marriage counseling, as well as individuals with anxiety and depression. He also works with children and adolescents. He has trained lay facilitators and implemented support and recovery programs in a local church setting. He enjoys speaking to church groups on a variety of topics. He and his wife Helen have four children and live in Ashburn.
Laurie Hesler is a Counselor on Staff at Cornerstone Chapel and is a Virginia Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and a Registered Board Certified Art Therapist. Over the past 30 years Laurie’s clinical focus has been with children, adolescents, couples, singles and families dealing with a variety of life challenges. She has extensive experience working with families who have children with developmental, behavioral and/or emotional concerns.
Laurie married her husband in 1984 and they have four children (one internationally adopted special needs child). They have lived in Southern California, Australia, Maryland and Virginia while serving in Youth Ministry, Missions and Pastoring in a wide variety of churches. Laurie is passionate about the difference Christ can make in people’s lives when dealing with ordinary or extraordinary circumstances and seeks to challenge those in her care with part of her life verse, Roman 12: 2, “Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
Pastor Andy Wagner is the Executive Pastor of Ministries and Church Operations at Cornerstone, and oversees the counseling ministry. He is a licensed professional counselor and a certified mediator. Pastor Andy received his Bachelors in Counseling Psychology from Indiana Wesleyan University (where he met his wife, Darla) and his Masters in Professional Counseling from Liberty University. He and Darla live in Leesburg and have two children, Kendra & Logan.